Author: tressa_gibbs@yahoo.com

Let’s be honest, talking about sex can feel really uncomfortable. For many of us, our parents didn’t know how to talk to us about it (or avoided the topic altogether). We may have picked up confusing or even harmful messages from culture, and sometimes church communities reinforced the idea that sex is a taboo subject. Read More

So many couples get caught in the trap of scorekeeping! Who did the most this week, who got less sleep (speaking to you, parents with young kids), who spent the most, who did more housework, on and on! It’s easy to have a running tally in your head of how much you’ve done vs. what Read More

So how do we stop these awful fight from happening and how to we move past them? First, recognize the pattern that you get in. Not the stuff that you’re fighting about, but the way you and your spouse each respond. Do you move towards or away. Start to see the pattern you get in Read More

I often hear from couples about how nasty their arguments can get. Hurtful things said, divorce threatened. Why does this happen with the person you care about? How can you stop it? What do you do with the aftermath of damage? Well, there are actually reasons that make alot of sense, even though that doesn’t Read More