Is it possible to win a fight, when it means your spouse has to lose?

When you think about it, it’s easy to get into a fight with your spouse, and the intent becomes to win! To prove your point, get your way, show your spouse he/she is wrong. But do you really win, when the one you love loses? I encourage couples to look at conflict differently…your spouse is not the enemy, they are actually on your team. If you’re fighting about money, it’s helpful to realize you and your spouse are actually on Read More

I could never tell her that!

So many men feel that they cannot share their struggles with their wives.  Their inadequacies.  Their failures.  And often, unfortunately, they’re right.  Maybe he’s shared that he’s worried about his job security, and this causes his wife to worry and add pressure, and so he decided it would be better to keep that to himself.  Maybe he shared that he occasionally struggles with lust or pornography, and she panics and unintentionally shames him, so he mentally says “I can’t share that part of me again.” Read More